Fellatio is the technical term for oral sex that is carried out on a man. Commonly referred to as a blowjob or giving head it should be pointed out that there really is no right or wrong way to give fellatio, but there are a number of techniques that you can use to ensure that your partner receives great pleasure.
When answering the question, how to give fellatio, the most important thing I always say is to be open, honest, and communicate with your partner. Find out what he likes and what gives him pleasure. Learn all you can about his penis, its sensitive and not so sensitive areas, and most of all enjoy yourself.
If it is your first time, you will no doubt be wondering exactly how to give fellatio. Putting a penis in your mouth may not be the most natural thing at first but with practice and perseverance you will find that it can be the most powerful of all sexual acts.
You should begin by touching your partner’s penis with your lips. Use soft gentle kisses at first as this can be very stimulating and erotic. These light teasing touches will really turn your partner on and even if you don’t know how to give fellatio you can’t go wrong with this.There are a number of different places that you can touch, kiss, lick, and suck on your partner’s penis but by far the most sensitive is the glans or the tip of the penis. This area is filled with nerve endings and flicking your tongue back and forth across the glans will send him soaring with ecstasy.
The rim of the head of the penis is also very sensitive and running your tongue around this area is another very pleasurable technique. Licking what is known as the frenulum – the area where the foreskin attaches to the penis is another major turn on and will definitely please your partner.
When you discover how to give fellatio, you will realize that the whole process actually mimics sexual intercourse and with this in mind you should note that once his penis is inside your mouth a sliding motion – moving your mouth up and down along the penis, should be performed. You can also use your hands to caress his testicles and to help with the up and down movements. What you will need to be careful of, is your teeth. You should never bite or even nibble your partner’s penis as this can cause damage.
When performing fellatio, start off slowly and gradually increase the speed and pressure as you go. Don’t be afraid to ask him if he likes it, or if he would like you to do something else. The key to performing great fellatio is in knowing exactly what your partner likes and you won’t know this if you don’t ask.
Swallow or Not
This is something that we really must mention when it comes to fellatio and it is also something that is very much a personal choice. You should never feel forced into swallowing if you don’t want to. Whilst most men will love the thought of you swallowing their sperm, it really won’t make a great deal of difference if you don’t. The main thing here is to discuss it beforehand. The last thing you or your partner want is to have his ejaculation spoil the moment. You jumping back and spitting all over the bed really will put a damper on the occasion.
Whether you decide to swallow your partner’s sperm or not, you should be aware that sperm is completely harmless and is full of nutrients and minerals and is also fat free, a bonus for anyone on a diet. If you are performing fellatio on a new sexual partner it is advisable to use a condom as HIV can be transmitted this way.
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