Tantric foreplay plays a BIG role in tantric sex because we Tantrikas followers of tantric sex believe in taking it slow so that we can get maximum pleasure from each step of the lovemaking process.Wouldnt you want to get the very best from each other and the greatest pleasure your bodies each time you make love?
Tantric Foreplay - The Importance of Feedback
Before we begin, its important to note that giving and receiving feedback is an important aspect of tantric foreplay. Not everybody likes the same things and more often than not, we read something or hear some sexy tip and automatically think our partners will like them.
Case in point: Joel real name withheld for privacy, has seen quite a few x-rated films where spitting played a big role. Of course in the movie, the woman liked it and thought his girlfriend would love that too. True enough, after he did it, his girlfriend was disgusted wouldnt speak to him for quite a while.
While engaging in tantric foreplay, its important that you ask simple questions to ensure that she really likes what youre doing. For instance, you can simply ask "Honey, do you like it when I do this?"A full blown discussion need not follow. That would kill the mood. A simple moan should be enough for you.
Now, heres a little tip from advanced Tantric sex followers, establish a sort of gesture sheet so that you two can communicate with each other subtly during foreplay and during actual intercourse too. For instance, her rubbing the top of your head means she likes what youre doing, massaging your head means shes really into what youre doing, and tugging lightly at your hair means she feels she might cum from what youre doing.
As for things shes not so hot about, a faint grunt or maybe a tightening together of her thighs should tell you to back off a bit with what youre doing.
Tantric Foreplay - Heres How You Can Really Pleasure Her
Following are some tantric foreplay moves you can try tonight:
One: Studies show that most people engage only the upper part of their bodies and each others faces during foreplay. Since were after full body pleasure here, start from the bottom up.
- Massage her feet and toes and try some licking and sucking there.
- Move up and gently massage her legs or use some other texture / fabric e.g., velvet, silk, etc. to caress her legs.
- Extend her leg up and lick the back of her leg.
- Blow at the back of her knees.
- Stroke inner and outer portions of her thighs. Did you know that doing this helps increase blood flow to the genitals
Two: Use your teeth. Gentle nibbling is encouraged dont bite. When youre caressing her thighs, go down and nibble at the fleshiest part a little bit. When youre going down on her, a few very gentle nibbles on her labia are encouraged. When you move upwards to her breasts, nibble around her areola. You may try and tug or gently bite her nipples but be sensitive to how she reacts to this.
You can also use your teeth to graze like fingernails other areas of her skin like her shoulder blades and collarbone.
Three: Blindfold her. Blindfolding entails a lot of trust in each other so dont push this if shes not ready. Furthermore, dont encourage anything or do anything youre not willing to try yourself. So why try blindfolding during tantric foreplay.
Each time one of the senses is covered, the other senses begin to heighten. For example, the effect of a single lick on her wrist would be magnified a hundred times over if shes blindfolded. Also, it builds sexual tension because the mind begins to anticipate certain things. You can even try foreplay with both of you blindfolded.
Four: Please yourself first or ask her to please herself first. At first glance, this may sound like a selfish act completely against Tantric sex principles. Actually, its not.
Showing your partner who you want to be pleased or vise versa is a great exercise in trust and education. Consider this, would you go about pleasing yourself with just anyone? Of course not. You would only be comfortable doing this with someone you love and trust. And at the same time, youre giving your partner a clear blueprint on how you want to be loved. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
About the Author
Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The Female Ejaculation Mastery. It is a step-by-step guide to teach men about female ejaculation. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/female-ejaculation.html
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