by: Jubal CageAre women meant to have orgasms during sex? Or maybe the question should be, why is it so difficult for many women to experience orgasm during sex? Are men clueless about women’s bodies? Here’s how the ancient Chinese described a woman’s orgasm. It seem a woman goes through 9 different stages to achieve full orgasm.
Each stage corresponds to an organ system and has clearly observable signs. Often, during sex, these levels tend to overlap and intermingle, and the man has to accurately discern when one stage has been completed and the next has been entered, until the final stage is over.
Stage 1 - The Lung organ system. The woman sighs, breathes heavily and salivates.
Stage 2 - The Heart - The woman, while kissing the man extends her tongue to him. The tip of the tongue, according to Five Elements theory corresponds to the Heart, so she is in effect, reaching out to him with her Heart.
Stage 3 - Spleen, Pancreas & Stomach - As her muscles become activated, the woman grasps and holds the man tightly as if taking him in as one takes in food.
Stage 4 - Kidneys & Bladder - She experiences a series of vaginal spasms and secretions begin to flow. It is at this point that many believe the woman has reached an orgasm. Like the man, she begins to relax as her joints loosen.
Stage 5 - Bones - Her bones loosen and joints loosen and she begins to bite the man.
Stage 6 - Liver and Nerves - The woman undulates and gyrates like a snake, trying to wrap her arms and legs around the man.
Stage 7 - Blood - Her blood begins to boil and she is frantically trying to touch the man everywhere.
Stage 8 - Muscles - Her muscles totally relax. She bites even more and grabs the man’s nipples.
Stage 9 - The Entire Body is Energized - She totally collapses in a ‘little death’. She completely surrenders to the man and is completely opened up.
What is crucial is the man’s ability to withhold his orgasm, while he brings the woman to full orgasmic fulfillment.
Ok… The female orgasm can be elusive but if you’re a woman who has problems in that area, you’re not alone. And if you’re the sexual partner who’s wondering what you’re doing wrong, you’re not alone either!
But that’s not a lot of comfort, is it, when you’re lying there looking up at the ceiling and feeling let down again because your orgasm was invited to the party but didn’t show up.
Well, the good news is there’s a new e-book available titled ‘MY FEMALE ORGASM by Irene Cooper. In it she’ll explain dyspareunia, vaginismus and the difference between primary and secondary anorgasmia. Plus a bunch of tips that deal with problems you’re aware of and some you don’t care to admit to yourself. It’s time to confront them.
This book contains comprehensive information on the female orgasm and how to control it and it’s not available anywhere else but right here.
Finally, the achievement of an orgasm during sexual intercourse should be the expectation of both partners. Otherwise it’s like receiving an invitation that says, ‘Sorry, your partner can come - but you can’t.’ So if you’re ready to find that elusive female orgasm, click below.
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