According to some sex experts, the best sex is married sex, as long as it contains the ingredient that many happy husbands and wives secretly share.... sensuality.

“If you want to return the excitement to your marriage, both in and out of bed, develop a more sensual relationship”, says sex therapist Lovanne Cole. "You will certainly enjoy your life together especially your love life more than ever."

Sensuality means sharing delight and gaining pleasure through the five physical senses – touch, sight, hearing, smell and taste. And likewise the incorporation of the sixth sense i.e playfulness which characterizes the happiest couples.

Whenever married couples complained that their relationships weren't garnished with as much fun as when courting, my candid advice is that they should do the things they did when they were courting and during their honey moon and recapture that feeling of fun. They can sip wine, hug and kiss. By making time to be affectionate, you will never lose that feeling of being two souls in love.

“People want to be hugged and kissed at breakfast and after work” says psychologist Stella Resnick. It’s all part of our deep need to feel physical closeness. Touch also enhances sensuality by stimulating the release at endorpins, the body’s mood elevating chemicals. Caresses can reduce blood pressure and make people feel calmer and happier. Spouses who enjoy frequent sensual touching feel better medically as opined by Theresa Crensaw. The stress reducing effects of sensual touch can set the stage for fulfilling love-making.

In one study of human sexuality, music was the highest rated enhancer of lovely mood. Three quarters of the couples surveyed said it enhanced the mood for love. Carefully select music that excite both of your or at least your wife and play it when making love to one another. Romantic whispers also have sensual potential. Never underestimate the sensual power of an erotic message sent to your partner at noon. Leaving a sensual note for your spouse can excite him/her when your know that you will arrive late.

Endeavour to embrace frequently. Hold one another’s hand when moving together. Eating together at least once in a day. Give an hug to your wife when she is working in the kitchen.

Massage his shoulders when he is tense. Then you will discover that playful and sensual attitude that will make your marriage feel new again and again. If sex is the fire in marriage, I can conclude that sensuality is the spark that keeps it burning.



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MOSHOOD JOSEPH IS HAPPILY MARRIED TO MOSHOOD GLADYS AND THEY ARE BLESSED WITH A BABY GIRL NAMED IMUSEOLUWA ESTHER.HE IS HOLDER OF MASTER DEGREE IN CHRISTIAN MINISTRY FROM GO YE CHRISTIAN UNIVERSITY INC.,USA.

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